Human beings have a innate desire to destabilize themselves and all those individuals around them. In other words, if you are unhappy or unstable in your thinking or maybe even have a fear or even anger, you tend to surround yourself with like minded people. You may even in some cases be drawn to those type of individuals to your own detriment. Then others will look at you, classifying you with that type of person with statements like, “birds of a feather flock together” or “you are what your eat.”

Amos 3:3 says, 3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

This is making the same statement as a “bird of the same feather will stick together.” But getting to the root of the matter, there must be an under lining problem in you life that has been hidden and/or covered up that is coming to the surface out of a need for something that wasn’t fulfilled. Possibly hurt or emotional baggage that was not dealt with in some point in your growth both spiritually and psychological. As humans we are constantly introduced to traumatic and emotional events or situations between the ages of 5 through the age of 30 years that have yet to come to a resolution. These events have caused us to make the wrong decisions in life that we are feeling the results of today.

Here are a list of 7 major things that have caused individuals to make some terrible and sometimes unfortunate mistakes in life:

1. Abandonment issues
2. Abuse issues
3. Loneliness issues
4. Low-self esteem
5. Self-Hatred
6. Mentally unbalance
7. No spirit to soul balance

Matthew 11:28-30 says, 28 Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.

This your time and this the right place to let yourself be set free in Jesus Christ today. In the book 2 Corinthians, its tells us we have to let go of everything that is holding us back and make that step to a new life.

2 Corinthians 5:7-10 says, 7 (For we walk by faith, not by sight:) 8 We are confident, I say, and willing rather to be absent from the body, and to be present with the Lord. 9 Wherefore we labour, that, whether present or absent, we may be accepted of him. 10 For we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ; that every one may receive the things done in his body, according to that he hath done, whether it be good or bad.

You must remember whom the Lord sets free is free indeed. Romans 14:12-17 says, 12 So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God. 13 Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumblingblock or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way. 14 I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteemeth any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean. 15 But if thy brother be grieved with thy meat, now walkest thou not charitably. Destroy not him with thy meat, for whom Christ died. 16 Let not then your good be evil spoken of: 17 For the kingdom of God is not meat and drink; but righteousness, and peace, and joy in the Holy Ghost.

Also Galatians 5:13-17 says, 13 For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. 14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 15 But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another. 16 This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. 17 For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.

To all who would be a child of the King, do as Jesus has commanded.