How many times have you told yourself that you where not going to fall for that same thing again? Or even said that that thing wouldn’t fool you again, then you went right back into it again? Well Albert Einstein’s third law of motion is this: for every action there is an equal and opposite reaction, and it became a law of man. But before man even existed God said in Galatians 6:7-9:

7 Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. 8 For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. 9 And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season
we shall reap, if we faint not.

I believe a lot of us have passed out from reaping from what we have sowed, to the point where it’s not so convenient to sow, because every time we sow, we get the short end of the stick. For example, I try to help someone who is down in their life then they start taking advantage of my kind nature. Still another might say, “when I tried to help a Brother or Sister in the ministry I feel like I’m being used.” Well the Bible reads in Romans 12:5-16:

5 So we, being many, are one body in Christ, and every one members one of another. 6 Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, whether prophecy, let us prophesy according to the proportion of faith; 7 Or ministry, let us wait on our ministering: or he that teacheth, on teaching; 8 Or he that exhorteth, on exhortation: he that giveth, let him do it
with simplicity; he that ruleth, with diligence; he that sheweth mercy, with cheerfulness. 9 Let love be without dissimulation. Abhor that which is evil; cleave to that which is good. 10 Be kindly affectioned one to another with brotherly love; in honour preferring one another; 11 Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord; 12 Rejoicing in hope; patient in
tribulation; continuing instant in prayer; 13 Distributing to the necessity of saints; given to hospitality. 14 Bless them which persecute you: bless, and curse not. 15 Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep. 16 Be of the same mind one toward another. Mind not high
things, but condescend to men of low estate. Be not wise in your own conceits.

In Proverbs 14:12 also says, “there is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.”

Everything good in your own eyes as Proverbs 21:2 says, “every way of a man is right in his own eyes: but the Lord pondereth the hearts.”

Many times when we think there is a problem with someone else, the problem is usually you being unwilling, or wanting to be more humble than the other person. So we have a tendency to wear our feelings on our sleeves of emotions, which in turn will causes more conflict than communication.

Matthew 5:42-44 says:
42 Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away. 43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. 44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you:

Extra Reading:
Proverbs, 15:1-2 remember “weigh before you say it.”

In my Conclusion look at James 4:7-8:
7 Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8 Draw nigh to God, and he will draw nigh to you. Cleanse your hands, ye sinners; and purify your hearts, ye double minded.

People of God you need to read 2 Timothy 2:21-25
21 If a man therefore purge himself from these, he shall be a vessel unto honour, sanctified, and meet for the master’s use, and prepared unto every good work. 22 Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 But foolish and unlearned questions avoid, knowing that they do gender strifes. 24 And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient, 25 In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves; if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth;

In Jesus name it is so. Selah!